If Only Dating Didn’t Involve Anything But Friendship…

Jan 9, 2008 by Brendan Do    No Comments    Posted under: Archived Blogs

Hm. How am I going to start this one? I dunno..

Alright. So have you ever thought about dating your best friend? Like. Okay. Maybe your best friend is of the same gender, but I’m not talking about in a sexual way. If you think about it, if dating didn’t involve anything physical or fuzzy feelings inside or anything like that, wouldn’t your best friend just be the perfect candidate to date? You guys are clearly compatible since well, you guys are best pals.

I sometimes wish we were built that way so then no one would ever have to deal with the frustration of finding a “soul-mate” and the process of that. It’s just such a hassle…and we all know how I feel about hassles. I despise them.

Unfortunately we weren’t built that way and we have to go through the process, feel the pains from it, work for it, and all that jazz. If you think about it, most people spend more time in the dumps than not about it.. Which I find super lame. So you’re telling me that we spend more time in our lives trying to fill this gap in our hearts than actually living with this gap filled? Hm. Doesn’t sound too good to me…

It’s not even like completing such a task is easy, you would think that since we were built to have to complete such a task, maybe it’d be a little easier? Nope. It’s not. In fact, it’s one of the hardest things ever. EVER?! Yes. There are very few things that are the hardest things ever to do. Very few things in this world is not possible, like, actual things and not things involving other things. With Google being so easily accessible at the top of your browser, mostly anything in this world is able to be completed. Things such as stuff involving emotions, people, and life cannot be accomplished by this. Build a bridge? Yeah, sure, Google it. Fill in a gap in your life? Um. Yeah, you’re on your own buddy. aPshh..

I definitely just tried to scroll this scroll box like if it were an iPhone. Like. I used my fingers and then I got surprised that this box didn’t scroll. Hm. I think I spend way too much time on that dang phone.

…Song stuck in my head…

I’m sorry I’m bad, I’m sorry you’re blue
I’m sorry about all the things I said to you
And I know I can’t take it back
I love how you kiss, I love all your sounds
And baby the way you make my world go ’round
And I just wanted to say I’m sorry.

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